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Welcome to Alchemy
Real connections, no games! Alchemy is the first relationship app with zero paywalls, no algorithms, and tools that help you match, message, and grow freely.
Alchemy
Join The Relationship Revolution
Download The App
Download on the Apple App Store
Download on the Google Play Store
What's Different About Alchemy?
ZERO ALGORITHEMS
~ You should be the one choosing who you connect with - NOT a computer or programmer.
That's why we give you access to 100% of search filters for free.
CONNECTION NOT ADDICTION
~ All other dating apps make money by keeping you on the app as long as possible.
This can mean hours of wasted time and addiction-like behavior when seeking those dopamine hits.
That's why we limit the time you spend on the app and amount of open matches you can have.
MENATAL HEALTH
~ We want to make sure you're seeking connections from a place of stability and curiosity, not need, fear, and loneliness.
So we offer you a mental health checklist before scrolling and solutions if you need them.
SKILLED CONNECTIONS
~ No matter how many dates you go on, at the end of the day your relationship skills will determine where those connections end up.
So we offer you videos, courses, journaling prompts, and practices to do with yourself or with a partner - at any stage of the relationship.
RELATIONSHIP REVOLUTION
~ Healthy relationships are the key to human happiness, a sense of meaning, identity, and pupose.
Working on your connection to yourself creates a fundamental shift that ripples into every connection you have and ultimatly, can change the entire world for the better.
RELATIONSHIP IS BROKEN
Relationships have become about getting something rather than being part of something and thus, tend to have shorter lifespans. This is because as people grow and change, so do their desires and curiosities.
This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. But because of the cultural mythology around relationship, people tend to feel like failures when they can’t find the ‘perfect someone.’
VALUABLE TRAINING
Content Based On The Five Principles of Alchemical Relating
~ Lead with Vulnerability
~ Be Curious
~ Prioritize Fun
~ Never Rush
~ Trust Your Feeling
VALUABLE TRAINING
~ Deal Breaker disagreements~ Sexual Compatibility and Connection
~ Poor communication~ Feeling a lack of authentic connection~ Anxious / Avoidant Attachment issues
VALUABLE TRAINING
Content Based On Stages of Relationship
~ Dating Myself
~ Seeking
~ Getting to know them
~ Honeymoon Phase
~ Long Term Relating
~ Parenting
~ Breaking Up
~ Discussing Polyamory
Tina's Story - Is It a Fantasy View of Relationship?
Tina is a straight young professional In her late twenties living in New York and she's looking for love. She's had some success matching with people on some older apps. But the problem is always the same - they have some fun, maybe even engage in a sexual relationship ( Which is never great), but there's never much depth, vulnerability, authenticity, or excitement.
After a time, she goes back to seeking, trying to find a connection that's more meaningful. But honestly, she's depressed and doesn't believe anymore. On top of that, she knows that even if she does fall deeply in love and get married, she's more likely to struggle and find herself divorced by her mid-thirties than live happily ever after.
Scrolling through Instagram one day she comes across Alchemy. She's curious and hopeful and so she downloads using the free advanced search features. She also learns about her own patterns in relationship, about her own body, and ways to engage in relationship on a deeper level.
She finds some interesting guys she'd consider dating and even some women she'd like to add as friends. Alchemy offers her the opportunity to answer some questions posed by the people she's interested in, so she does that.
Mark, One of the guys she liked, read her response and really liked it. He decides to respond and connect. Tina and Mark have a deep conversation utilizing some of the built in prompts offered by Alchemy.
When they do finally meet in person, they have a good connection. They follow the advice provided by Alchemy, and don't force any kind of specific relationship on each other. They take their time and allow what's natural to evolve. Meanwhile, they continue to use the app’s courses, groups, and social functions to create a greater community of relationship support.
A year later, Mark and Tina are enjoying life together but they have their first major fight. Once again they turn to Alchemy for support. They choose one of the available counselors and have a few private sessions, which helps them sort out the differences that they had.
Five years later, Tina and Mark come to a crossroads. Mark was offered a job in Europe and Tina decides that she doesn't want a long-distance relationship. This time they utilize Alchemy's process for conscious separation to support each other in letting go of the connection. They continue to enjoy a friendship for the rest of their lives and they continue to enjoy the benefits of Alchemy for years to come.
Free Video Courses
The Path to Perfect Intimacy: 6 Timeless Lessons on Love
This Course is designed to help you break free from unhealthy relationship patterns, heal emotional wounds, and build authentic, fulfilling connections through deep self-reflection, practical tools, and timeless wisdom.
Emotional Intelligence 101
This course helps you understand what an emotion actually is, differentiating it from thoughts, feelings, and intuition. It also guides you through five primary negative emotional states—grief, anger, sadness, helplessness, and numbness.
Reclaiming the Lost Pieces of Yourself: Theory and Practice
This course contains an introduction and three transformative guided visualizations designed to help you reclaim lost parts of yourself: Body awareness, receptivity, and a profound regression practice.