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Meet our 2026 Faculty
We're partnering with these inspiring therapists to bring you more courses in 2026
Aaran has been devoted his life to answering the question, 'What is Love?' and studying the human spirit and mind.
Wild woman. Priestess. Energy healer. Holistic Health Coach. Postpartum Doula. Breathwork Practitioner. Helping seekers discover their soul's purpose and remember who they truly are.
John is the Founder of Presence Therapy®, a novel approach to psychotherapy that integrates mindfulness, interpersonal neuroscience, experiential therapy and psychobiology.
Masterful in helping people release trauma symptoms, she specialises in supporting leaders who co-create harmonious nature-connected culture which exudes love and beauty for all.
Aryana weaves together her conscious breathing, regenerative nutrition, meditation, yoga, healing sound, and movement practices
Peter is a Licensed Professional Counselor who incorporates mindfulness in his work. He specializes in connection, authenticity, reducing stress, and relationships.
Jessica has a passion for humanity’s evolution and awakening. She is an embodied spirituality teacher, chiropractor, energy medicine practitioner, and sound healer.
Uriel is a Tantra and Yoga teacher at Mahasiddha Yoga, and for the past 20 years he has devoted himself to the path of Tantra-Yoga with great enthusiasm
The Compatibility Blueprint
The five principles of compatibility help you clarifiy values, communication, lifestyle, intimacy, and growth—so you can date wisely, talk openly, and build the kind of love that lasts.
Availableon the Alchemy App
Reclaiming the Lost Pieces of Yourself: Theory and Practice
This course contains an introduction and three transformative guided visualizations designed to help you reclaim lost parts of yourself: Body awareness, receptivity, and a profound regression practice.
Availableon the Alchemy App
Conscious Communication
Build Trust, Intimacy, and Clarity in Every Relationship. Learn practical communication skills that transform conflict into connection and help you create emotionally safe, thriving relationships.
Availableon the Alchemy App
The Celestial Archetype Journey
12 meditations, 12 energies, one expanded you. You’re about to embody the strengths of the whole zodiac—courage, self-love, clarity, healing, discipline, insight, surrender—so you can access new dimensions of power and peace whenever you need them.
Availableon the Alchemy App
Emotional Intelligence
Practical Emotional Tools that Return you to Calm, Clarity, and Connection. A step-by-step course with guided visualizations and daily practices that help you understand emotions, reset your nervous system, and respond from steadiness instead of reactivity.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days of Healing for the Avoidantly Attached
A 21-day program to help you feel safe expressing needs, emotions, and vulnerability in relationships. Through guided reflections, body-based awareness, and trust-building exercises, you’ll learn how to balance independence with connection.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days of Healing for the Anxiously Attached
A 21-day journey to help you soothe overthinking, reduce emotional dependence, and feel more secure in love. ou’ll learn to recognize anxious patterns, release fear of abandonment, and build self-trust.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days to Understand Men: A Journey for Women
A 21-day challenge for women to understand the inner world of men—their emotions, needs, and ways of loving. Beyond understanding men, this course also serves as a journey of integrating the masculine within yourself.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days to Understand Women: A Journey for Men
A 21-day challenge to help men understand how women communicate, love, and move through emotions with depth and flow. Beyond understanding women, this course also serves as a journey of integrating the feminine within yourself.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days of Heart–Root
Integration
This 21-day challenge teaches you to harmonize emotional intimacy and sexual energy through meditations and rituals. Whether single or partnered, you’ll explore how desire becomes more profound when rooted in love and spiritual awareness.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days of
Body Confidence
This self-guided 21-day challenge helps you move beyond comparison and shame by honoring your body as sacred. Each day blends mirror work, affirmations, and mindfulness practices to help you feel beautiful, worthy, and free in your own skin.
Availableon the Alchemy App
New Courses
~ Dating 101: Learn how to date with emotional intelligence, clarity, pacing, and conscious communication.
~ Understanding Her Cycles: Understand women’s cyclical rhythms and how to relate with steadiness, respect, and attunement.
~ Red Flags and Icks: Learn to tell the difference between real intuition and trauma-triggered fear or projection.
~ Mastering Intuition: Reconnect to your intuitive signal and learn to trust it for love, purpose, and decision-making.
~ Introduction to Tantra for Men & Women: A grounded introduction to sacred sexuality, polarity, energy, and conscious intimacy.
~ Lessons from Greek Mythology: Use timeless myths to understand modern relationship patterns and mature into deeper love.
~ Your Relationship with Food: Heal emotional eating and rebuild nourishment patterns through awareness, compassion, and structure.
~ How You Breathe is How You Live: Open the breath to regulate your nervous system, release tension, and feel more alive.
~ Loving Kindness Through Shadow Work: Integrate shadow emotions with compassion so you can love and show up more fully.
New 21-Day Challenges
~ 21 Days of Communication in Bed: Practice safer, clearer sexual communication so intimacy becomes relaxed, playful, and honest.
~ 21 Days to Build Emotional & Erotic Trust: Rebuild safety and desire through daily practices that deepen trust and attraction.
~ 21 Days to Design Your Ideal Relationship Model: Clarify your values and create agreements for a relationship structure that fits you.
~ 21 Days to End Codependency: Break caretaking and self-abandonment patterns and rebuild autonomy, boundaries, and self-trust.
~ 21 Days of Nonviolent Expression: Learn to express hard truths without blame, threat, or shutdown—so conflict becomes connection.
~ 21 Days of Shared Purpose: Create a shared vision and daily alignment so the relationship feels meaningful and directional.
~ 21 Days to Heal the Heart After Breakup: Process grief, detach gently, and rebuild self-worth so you can love again with wisdom.
Alchemy is available in the Apple App Store and Google Play Store, but we recommend the web app for speed, smooth loading, and having the most up-to-date features.
Want the Entire Library of Books and Courses? AND All Future Ones?
Become A Founding Member
To fuel the continued development of this platform, expand community features, produce new courses and 21‑day challenges, and build the global movement around relational intelligence, we are offering a limited number of Lifetime Memberships - 1,000 only!
These founding memberships help us accelerate growth, expand our team, and bring conscious relationship education to more people worldwide.
~ All current courses
~ ALL future evergreen courses (2026 production list above - and more)
~ Access to a community of people dedicated to relational intelligence in romance, work, and community
~ Ongoing additions such as guided practices, free lectures, and other events
The Alchemy Library is a living system for building relational intelligence for life. It's something you can access 'as needed' or dedicate 30 minutes a week to studying. However it fits into your schedule.
Ask yourself: Where will I be in a year if I devote 30 minutes a week to learning how to build healthier relationships?
Once the 1,000 spots are filled, lifetime access closes.
Not sure yet? No worries — keep this page open in a browser, explore the FAQ's, explore the app, and decide later. Just don’t wait too long: once the 1,000 lifetime memberships are gone, that option closes.
If you don’t feel a measurable shift in your relational life, you have two full years to request a complete refund.
No friction. No interrogation.
And we can still be friends (:
ZERO ALGORITHMS -
USE ADVANCED FILTERS
Cut through endless scrolling. Use granular filters—values, lifestyle rhythms, communication style, intimacy/affection preferences, spirituality, family plans, and more—to find people who live the way you do.
All filters are free to use, with no paywalls blocking who liked you or your ability to send a first message.
THE COMPATIBILITY
BLUEPRINT
CONNECTION NOT ADDICTION
~ All other dating apps make money by keeping you on the app as long as possible.
This can mean hours of wasted time and addiction-like behavior when seeking those dopamine hits.
That's why we limit the time you spend on the app and amount of open matches you can have.
MENTAL HEALTH
~ We want to make sure you're seeking connections from a place of stability and curiosity, not need, fear, and loneliness.
So we offer you a mental health checklist before scrolling and solutions if you need them.
SKILLED CONNECTIONS
~ No matter how many dates you go on, at the end of the day your relationship skills will determine where those connections end up.
So we offer you videos, courses, journaling prompts, and practices to do with yourself or with a partner - at any stage of the relationship.
RELATIONSHIP REVOLUTION
~ Healthy relationships are the key to human happiness, a sense of meaning, identity, and purpose.
Working on your connection to yourself creates a fundamental shift that ripples into every connection you have and ultimately, can change the entire world for the better.
RELATIONSHIP IS BROKEN
Relationships have become about getting something rather than being part of something, and thus, tend to have shorter lifespans. This is because as people grow and change, so do their desires and curiosities.
This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. But because of the cultural mythology around relationship, people tend to feel like failures when they can’t find the ‘perfect someone.’
SEE THEIR GROWTH
Wondering who’s serious about personal growth? You can see which courses, workshops, or events someone has completed or attended (with badges on their profile). It’s both a conversation starter—“What did you take away from that workshop?”—and a trust signal that they’re actively doing the work.
FOR SINGLE AND
COUPLES
If you don’t feel a measurable shift in your relational life, you have two full years to request a complete refund.
No friction. No interrogation.
And we can still be friends (:
Alchemy is available in the Apple App Store and Google Play Store, but we recommend the web app for speed, smooth loading, and having the most up-to-date features.