Alchemy 21: A 21-Day Conscious Connection Challenge
Be Part of the Community
Alchemy 21 is a 21-day accountability and support container that helps you complete one course (or one 21-day journey) inside Alchemy—consistently, with community, and with live support. You’ll do a simple daily check-in, and we’ll meet four times live for sharing, Q&A, deeper dives, and optional hot seats.
Next Start Date: March 14
Live Sessions: March 14, 21, 28, April 4 9:00am - 12:00pm (USA Central time)
Most people don’t struggle because the material isn’t good. They struggle because they don’t finish what they start—especially when life gets busy. You get inspired, you do a few lessons, and then momentum fades. Weeks pass. You’re back to “I’ll get to it soon.”
The result is predictable: you stay in the same patterns, just with more knowledge about them.
Alchemy 21 works because it adds what’s usually missing: a container for follow-through. You choose one path, you practice daily in a realistic way, you check in, and you’re supported through the dips where people normally quit. It’s not about doing more—it’s about doing what you already chose, consistently, until it lands.
Relying on motivation rarely works long-term. A simple group structure—with daily check-ins and live support—makes follow-through easier and completion far more likely.
Pricing & Guarantee
Investment: Just $47 for the 21-day group accountability experience, including four live sessions.
Or join as a Founding Member and participate free—including this event, future accountability events, and additional workshops. You’ll find more details on the Founding Membership below.
14-Day Refund Guarantee (for the $47 option): If you enroll with the one-time payment and decide it’s not the right fit, you can request a full refund anytime up to Day 14 of the event (inclusive). After Day 14, refunds are no longer available.
Founding Membership Guarantee: The Founding Membership includes a 2-year guarantee (details below).
If you want to commit to real change, join Alchemy 21 and complete your course with structure and support.
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If you don’t join, no pressure—you can absolutely do this on your own.
It’s just easier to let it drift when life gets full, and a course you want to take can end up taking much longer than you intended. If you’d like structure, momentum, and support to help you complete what you start and integrate what you learn, join Alchemy 21.
Want Alchemy 21 AND the Entire Library of Books and Courses? AND All Future Ones?
Become A Founding Member
To fuel the continued development of this platform, expand community features, produce new courses and 21‑day challenges, and build the global movement around relational intelligence, we are offering a limited number of Lifetime Memberships - 1,000 only!
These founding memberships help us accelerate growth, expand our team, and bring conscious relationship education to more people worldwide.
Take advantage of our special launch price of only $147.00!
With Lifetime Access to Alchemy's GROW Library, Here's What You Get:
~ All current courses
~ ALL future evergreen courses (2026 production list below)
~ Access to a community of people dedicated to relational intelligence in romance, work, and community
~ Ongoing additions such as guided practices, free lectures, and other events
The Alchemy Library is a living system for building relational intelligence for life. It's something you can access 'as needed' or dedicate 30 minutes a week to studying. However it fits into your schedule.
Ask yourself - where will I be in a year if I devote 30 minutes a week to learning relational intelligence?
Once the 1,000 spots are filled, lifetime access closes.
Not sure yet? No worries — keep this page open in a browser, explore the FAQ's, explore the app, and decide later. Just don’t wait too long: once the 1,000 lifetime memberships are gone, that option closes.
Remember: Alchemy CONNECT will Always be free. We'll never block you from building community and new relationships. This memberhsip is for our courses and video library.
Two-Year FULL Refund Guarantee
If you don’t feel a measurable shift in your relational life, you have two full years to request a complete refund.
No friction. No interrogation.
And we can still be friends (:
Current Video Courses
The Compatibility Blueprint
The five principles of compatibility help you clarifiy values, communication, lifestyle, intimacy, and growth—so you can date wisely, talk openly, and build the kind of love that lasts.
Available Freeon the Alchemy App
The Celestial Archetype Journey
12 meditations, 12 energies, one expanded you. You’re about to embody the strengths of the whole zodiac—courage, self-love, clarity, healing, discipline, insight, surrender—so you can access new dimensions of power and peace whenever you need them.
Available Freeon the Alchemy App
Reclaiming the Lost Pieces of Yourself: Theory and Practice
This course contains an introduction and three transformative guided visualizations designed to help you reclaim lost parts of yourself: Body awareness, receptivity, and a profound regression practice.
Available Freeon the Alchemy App
Conscious Communication
Build Trust, Intimacy, and Clarity in Every Relationship. Learn practical communication skills that transform conflict into connection and help you create emotionally safe, thriving relationships.
Available Freeon the Alchemy App
Emotional Intelligence
Practical Emotional Tools that Return you to Calm, Clarity, and Connection. A step-by-step course with guided visualizations and daily practices that help you understand emotions, reset your nervous system, and respond from steadiness instead of reactivity.
Available Freeon the Alchemy App
21-Day Challenges
21 Days of Healing for the Avoidantly Attached
A 21-day program to help you feel safe expressing needs, emotions, and vulnerability in relationships. Through guided reflections, body-based awareness, and trust-building exercises, you’ll learn how to balance independence with connection.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days of Healing for the Anxiously Attached
A 21-day journey to help you soothe overthinking, reduce emotional dependence, and feel more secure in love. ou’ll learn to recognize anxious patterns, release fear of abandonment, and build self-trust.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days to Understand Men: A Journey for Women
A 21-day challenge for women to understand the inner world of men—their emotions, needs, and ways of loving. Beyond understanding men, this course also serves as a journey of integrating the masculine within yourself.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days to Understand Women: A Journey for Men
A 21-day challenge to help men understand how women communicate, love, and move through emotions with depth and flow. Beyond understanding women, this course also serves as a journey of integrating the feminine within yourself.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days of Heart–Root
Integration
This 21-day challenge teaches you to harmonize emotional intimacy and sexual energy through meditations and rituals. Whether single or partnered, you’ll explore how desire becomes more profound when rooted in love and spiritual awareness.
Availableon the Alchemy App
21 Days of
Body Confidence
This self-guided 21-day challenge helps you move beyond comparison and shame by honoring your body as sacred. Each day blends mirror work, affirmations, and mindfulness practices to help you feel beautiful, worthy, and free in your own skin.
Availableon the Alchemy App
New Courses
~ Understanding Her Cycles: Understand women’s cyclical rhythms and how to relate with steadiness, respect, and attunement.
~ Red Flags and Icks: Learn to tell the difference between real intuition and trauma-triggered fear or projection.
~ Mastering Intuition: Reconnect to your intuitive signal and learn to trust it for love, purpose, and decision-making.
~ Introduction to Tantra for Men & Women: A grounded introduction to sacred sexuality, polarity, energy, and conscious intimacy.
~ Lessons from Greek Mythology: Use timeless myths to understand modern relationship patterns and mature into deeper love.
~ Your Relationship with Food: Heal emotional eating and rebuild nourishment patterns through awareness, compassion, and structure.
~ How You Breathe is How You Live: Open the breath to regulate your nervous system, release tension, and feel more alive.
~ Loving Kindness Through Shadow Work: Integrate shadow emotions with compassion so you can love and show up more fully.
New 21-Day Challenges
~ 21 Days of Communication in Bed: Practice safer, clearer sexual communication so intimacy becomes relaxed, playful, and honest.
~ 21 Days to Build Emotional & Erotic Trust: Rebuild safety and desire through daily practices that deepen trust and attraction.
~ 21 Days to Design Your Ideal Relationship Model: Clarify your values and create agreements for a relationship structure that fits you.
~ 21 Days to End Codependency: Break caretaking and self-abandonment patterns and rebuild autonomy, boundaries, and self-trust.
~ 21 Days of Nonviolent Expression: Learn to express hard truths without blame, threat, or shutdown—so conflict becomes connection.
~ 21 Days of Shared Purpose: Create a shared vision and daily alignment so the relationship feels meaningful and directional.
~ 21 Days to Heal the Heart After Breakup: Process grief, detach gently, and rebuild self-worth so you can love again with wisdom.
Grab a Lifetime Membership
Two-Year FULL Refund Guarantee
If you don’t feel a measurable shift in your relational life, you have two full years to request a complete refund.
No friction. No interrogation.
And we can still be friends (:
Take advantage of our special launch price of only $147.00!
~ You learn how to make connection safe.
~ How to speak honestly without wounding.
~How to repair quickly.
~ How to stay close without losing yourself.
~ How to turn conflict into understanding instead of damage.
And the impact goes way beyond your relationship.
~ Conscious love between two people changes a home.
~ A healed home changes a community.
~ Communities shape the culture inside companies — how people lead, collaborate, and care.
~ And over time, a culture that knows how to listen, regulate, and repair becomes a culture that votes, governs, and builds systems with more wisdom and less fear.
This is the ripple:
~ Two people feel safe to be real.
~ Children learn security instead of survival.
~ Friendships deepen into true support.
~ Workplaces become more human.
~ Communities become more resilient.
~ Even politics becomes less about outrage and more about solutions.
This is what you’re stepping into: a new way of love that doesn’t just improve your relationships — it helps heal the world you live in.
Welcome to Alchemy
Join The Relationship Revolution
Real connections, no games! Alchemy is the first relationship app with zero paywalls, no algorithms, and tools that help you match, message, and grow freely. It includes the Compatibility Blueprint, which helps you match based on the 5 principles of compatibility in relationship.
Alchemy is designed for both singles and couples who want to grow a healthy relationship - with two separate sections - GROW & CONNECT
The Alchemy App
The Compatibility Blueprint
Alchemy's Mission
What's Different About Alchemy?
ZERO ALGORITHMS -
USE ADVANCED FILTERS
Cut through endless scrolling. Use granular filters—values, lifestyle rhythms, communication style, intimacy/affection preferences, spirituality, family plans, and more—to find people who live the way you do.
All filters are free to use, with no paywalls blocking who liked you or your ability to send a first message.
THE COMPATIBILITY
BLUEPRINT
CONNECTION NOT ADDICTION
~ All other dating apps make money by keeping you on the app as long as possible.
This can mean hours of wasted time and addiction-like behavior when seeking those dopamine hits.
That's why we limit the time you spend on the app and amount of open matches you can have.
MENTAL HEALTH
~ We want to make sure you're seeking connections from a place of stability and curiosity, not need, fear, and loneliness.
So we offer you a mental health checklist before scrolling and solutions if you need them.
SKILLED CONNECTIONS
~ No matter how many dates you go on, at the end of the day your relationship skills will determine where those connections end up.
So we offer you videos, courses, journaling prompts, and practices to do with yourself or with a partner - at any stage of the relationship.
RELATIONSHIP REVOLUTION
~ Healthy relationships are the key to human happiness, a sense of meaning, identity, and pupose.
Working on your connection to yourself creates a fundamental shift that ripples into every connection you have and ultimatly, can change the entire world for the better.
RELATIONSHIP IS BROKEN
Relationships have become about getting something rather than being part of something and thus, tend to have shorter lifespans. This is because as people grow and change, so do their desires and curiosities.
This isn’t necessarily a bad thing. But because of the cultural mythology around relationship, people tend to feel like failures when they can’t find the ‘perfect someone.’
SEE THEIR GROWTH
Wondering who’s serious about personal growth? You can see which courses, workshops, or events someone has completed or attended (with badges on their profile). It’s both a conversation starter—“What did you take away from that workshop?”—and a trust signal that they’re actively doing the work.
FOR SINGLE AND
COUPLES
Couples can enjoy the courses and workshops without having a dating profile. Or they can search for new friendships together
Tina's Story - Is It a Fantasy View of Relationship?
Tina is a straight young professional In her late twenties living in New York and she's looking for love. She's had some success matching with people on some older apps. But the problem is always the same - they have some fun, maybe even engage in a sexual relationship ( Which is never great), but there's never much depth, vulnerability, authenticity, or excitement.
After a time, she goes back to seeking, trying to find a connection that's more meaningful. But honestly, she's depressed and doesn't believe anymore. On top of that, she knows that even if she does fall deeply in love and get married, she's more likely to struggle and find herself divorced by her mid-thirties than live happily ever after.
Scrolling through Instagram one day she comes across Alchemy. She's curious and hopeful and so she downloads using the free advanced search features. She also learns about her own patterns in relationship, about her own body, and ways to engage in relationship on a deeper level.
She finds some interesting guys she'd consider dating and even some women she'd like to add as friends. Alchemy offers her the opportunity to answer some questions posed by the people she's interested in, so she does that.
Mark, One of the guys she liked, read her response and really liked it. He decides to respond and connect. Tina and Mark have a deep conversation utilizing some of the built in prompts offered by Alchemy.
When they do finally meet in person, they have a good connection. They follow the advice provided by Alchemy, and don't force any kind of specific relationship on each other. They take their time and allow what's natural to evolve. Meanwhile, they continue to use the app’s courses, groups, and social functions to create a greater community of relationship support.
A year later, Mark and Tina are enjoying life together but they have their first major fight. Once again they turn to Alchemy for support. They choose one of the available counselors and have a few private sessions, which helps them sort out the differences that they had.
Five years later, Tina and Mark come to a crossroads. Mark was offered a job in Europe and Tina decides that she doesn't want a long-distance relationship. This time they utilize Alchemy's process for conscious separation to support each other in letting go of the connection. They continue to enjoy a friendship for the rest of their lives and they continue to enjoy the benefits of Alchemy for years to come.
Download The App
Alchemy is available in the Apple App Store and Google Play Store, but we
recommend the web app for speed, smooth loading, and having the most up-to-date features.